Farewell to a Friend
On March 18th, just before 1 pm PST, my dear friend Arthur C. Clarke died of respiratory failure in a Sri Lanka hospital. It was an event that his family and close friends had dreaded for years, though it was of course inevitable. Aside from his advanced age — Arthur turned 90 in December — the futurist and science fiction grandmaster suffered from Post Polio Syndrome, which had confined his lanky, once tireless frame to a wheelchair.
Many of you are aware of the strong bond Arthur and I shared, ever since he generously consented to meet me, a babbling 16-year-old fan, at his writing retreat at New York’s Chelsea Hotel in 1970. Over the past 38 years, I’ve written many stories about our encounters, which usually took place at his home in Sri Lanka (and often included my utter humiliation at table tennis). A story about our last meeting currently appears on the online version of Wired, under the title Sundown with Arthur.
Words can’t adequately express my fondness for this man, or how profoundly his writing, humanism, humor, warmth, and vision — and what a vision — influenced my life. As a tribute, I hope to practice the advice Arthur himself offered me after the death of my brother Jordan, in 1990. "Don’t mourn that you lost him," Arthur wrote. "Rejoice that you knew him."
All of humanity should rejoice and honor the long tenure of this kind, brilliant man, who maintained a crazy confidence in the redemtion—and
transcendence—of the human race. He left us with scores of wonderful books, food for thought to nourish generations to come, and the most useful tool ever placed into human hands: the communications satellite. Farewell, my friend. What we owe you is beyond evaluation.


this be? Am I getting lazy? Have I lost my spark? Wasn’t it Yours Truly who created the very first international blog, in 1993/1994, with my
Truth is, I prefer writing live blogs
become visceral reality. Before my visit to Tassie, the only Devil I’d seen was Taz, the voracious dervish of Bugs Bunny fame. Never dreamed I’d meet—and come to adore—the actual item. 
Meanwhile, let me recommend a book I’m reading. She sort of came out of nowhere — writing, directing, and starring in the effervescent indy film,
as well. I’m halfway through her first book,
The sage-green and pale brown bills – worth about 16 cents – show the sunken-eyed, scowling monarch glancing off to the right, as if wary even of the portrait artist (as well he might have been). On the new bills, the portrait of the king is printed over with a bouquet of red rhododendrons, the national flower. But locals delight in holding the revamped bill to the light, proving that the monarch is still hiding behind the scenes.

electricity now, and motorcycles are parked outside some of the shops. Aquifers are channeled through brass nozzles (instead of carved naga spouts), and gush onto cement platforms. There are more schools, and trucks carry 50 kg sacks of produce to the markets in Asan and Kupondole. But it’s the little things that get me: men taking pictures of local pujas with their cell phones; writing pads emblazoned with Spider-man; porches decorated with glittering CDs, which dangle and turn in the breeze. 
unrecognizably, between the mid-1980’s and late 1990’s. Most of the changes were for the worse. But the process of degradation seems to have reached a plateau; aside from the political chaos, and the portrait of the unsmiling King Gyanendra on the newly minted rupee notes, the Himalayan capital is not very different from my last visit. Beyond the brick wall of Chrissie’s little garden, a street vendor totes a cloud of toy balloons; they pass like a giant white-and-pink rhododendron bloom. The air is filled with dust and butterflies, scooters bounce down pitted dirt lanes, the eyes of Buddha gleam from the gilt temple harnika of Swayambhu, and the ground-level shops in Asantole and Indrachowk overflow with bangles and incense, prayer flags and goat heads, spices and rope, silver cups, sarees, yak wool sweaters. I’m overflowing, too. It’s good to be home.
Arrived in Nepal in mid-October
the food, she would tire quickly, the heat would be too much, the dust, the crowds, India. Wrong. We rode rickshaws into Delhi’s mobbed Old City, and an elephant up to Amber Fort. She developed a taste for papdam, masala dosa, and fresh lemon sodas. Her health was perfect, and she kept up with a punishing schedule that included hours – too many — in a bulbous Ambassador cab.
It was the most time I’d spent with my Mom
to do, so many friends to see, so little time. I suspected when I planned this trip that 18 days was going to be a little too long — or way too short. What was I thinking? Returning to Nepal is like falling back into a familiar embrace. Life here may be tough, but it’s life on a human scale. From this perspective, there an amazing awareness of the many levels that surround us – from the sacred snake-gods in the subterranean pools to the toxin-choked Bagmati River; from the ravens screeching from the tree-tops to the eyes of Buddha atop the Boudha dome. On every level, every level. That’s why I love Nepal. That’s why, even after five years, I call it home.